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Reality Check for Solutions That Work
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The What If FAQS
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Right on the face of it, when we hear this oft repeated marketing mantra, the typical first impulse is to provide detailed information about our credentials, training, and the esoteric or practical features of how we work in hopes that people will see for themselves we are the best option for them. 
 
The problem is that first impulse leads to a dead-end.

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What? A dead-end?  You mean, my credentials, training, and experience aren't important?  That the unique ways in which I work, and the wonderful benefits of my services aren't pertinent?
 
No, of course not.  There's definitely a place for these bits of information.  (Hint:  that place is on the bio page of your website).
 
And yes, I do mean that they aren't your strongest marketing pitch.  Here's why:
 
When we are in emotional distress or have a health problem that is disrupting our daily functioning, damaging our relationships, endangering our job security, or otherwise making life miserable or sleep impossible, we are very focused on our own subjective experience.  At these times, we have little patience or attention span with which to wade through the CEU credits of prospective helpers.
 
In other words, when you focus on your own qualifications in your marketing, it makes your prospective client's brain glaze over.
 
When we are in distress, most of us are very self-absorbed and self-centered -- this is human nature.  We want to feel like someone sees that distress, hears our cry for help, and will give us relief by providing direct help for our specific problem.
 
As a marketer, when you speak to our distress, ensure that you hear our cry, and offer an indication of having specific solutions for our specific problems, you are emotionally connecting with us, and we are compelled to connect with you -- by making an appointment!
 

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Being Specific
Doesn't Equal
Giving Guarantees

I hear a lot of therapists balk at writing their marketing message in a way that appears to give a guarantee or a promise that  clients will get a certain result.
 
When we hold this concern, we are thinking like a therapist and not like a marketer.
 
For the purposes of marketing, this concern is self-defeating.
 
I also believe that this concern is fatally paternalistic, boundary violating, and disempowering. 
 
It's paternalistic because  it takes responsibility away from the client, and positions the clinician as omnicient. It feeds the power differential, and contributes to the dependency clients feel towards their clinicians.
 
It's boundary violating because when we resist talking about specific solutions out of fear of creating a guarantee, it implies that we offer our clients no choices and do not follow their agenda for themselves.  It violates their ethical right to autonomy.
 
It's disempowering to them and to us to withhold mention of possible specific solutions.  It disempowers us because it reduces the sense of feeling seen and understood, which reduces the impulse to make an appointment.  It disempowers the client because it removes from their decision process the information that is most important to that decision.
 
 

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